Is there anything more intimate than sex? Some would say that no, that sexual relations - is not only fun, but trust between two people. And what about sexual fantasies? After all, sometimes talk about them - it's like to undress in the central square.
Sexologists, incidentally, claim that the dream of all. You never know, what does your boyfriend or husband is the head. Do it for you, or dreaming about the leggy blonde? And maybe even to mulattos or hot African guy?
Particularly intense dream teenagers about sex, they can dream up for hours. They say that on average, dreams about sex adolescents assign to 5-6 hours a day. As they get older dream displaces real sex and erotic fantasies play an hour and a half. After 25 years of fantasy becomes smaller, but they do not disappear, and sometimes it comes down to mind.
But what can you say if you dream about sex, even retirees. Sexologists even think of many older people would have turned out the best directors of porn movies.
Women's fantasies are slightly different from men's. Women - being emotional, and therefore did not come up with erotic scenes, and entire scenes. At the head of every woman lives a few erotic novels - at least, so say the psychologists. In their dreams, a woman does not represent the sexual act itself, it is important not movement, it is important detail. It gives a lot of time thinking up the plot, may from scratch to invent any character, and even fall in love with him. Of course, to devote all the subtleties of these fantasies she does not want anyone. Yes, and is it worth?
Men are usually very interesting. Of course, they are interested in dreams of his chosen. They are not against mental striptease and gladly listen to all your dreams. Only now, after some may take offense. Especially if you are not dreaming about it, but, for example, about his girlfriend or some famous personality. But do not make excuses and take refuge in silence. If you feel shy of his dreams, think of something new. Tell him about them, and let them put into practice. If you are not prepared to talk about dreams directly, try to do it by phone. Not for nothing because men are willing to pay for telephone calls to sexual themes. Well, so treat it - talk to him about everything that you like.
However, there is another but - what if he tells you something that you do not like it? According to statistics, men are very often change in thought. They dream about rough sex, children represent themselves and try on the role of sadist. Only now put into practice those dreams they are not in a hurry. For some it may just be ashamed. If a man entrusted to you my love mysteries, try to understand him. It's just a fantasy. Dreaming is not harmful, doctors are not prohibited. So you can not deny. And why? Dream on health.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
How to start a new life after divorce?
Divorce - a rather difficult period in the life of any woman. However, it does not end life. We just get out of a succession of old memories, to forget the former and start a new life.
First, you need to get rid of everything that reminds of the old life. This can be anything: clothes, books, photos, disks. If possible, you should change the place of residence, and maybe even the city. Thus, you not only get rid of the aura of a failed marriage, but otvlecheshsya from the divorce. In the opposite case, to overcome the memories will be much harder.
Do not go in so loved you once restaurants and cafes, where he once made you an offer, or the day after day twirl donated the souvenirs. Remove his work and mobile phone numbers, not rewriting them in advance at the leaf.
Let's face it: the past is not returned, and as before will be gone. Therefore you should not spend their years, youth and beauty of aimless recollections, and the constant shaking of nerves. Try to forget all the bad, leaving in only the most happy moments.
In no case of measles at his divorce: with you all right - you are beautiful, intelligent and charming, just sometimes the roads diverge. Maybe you should look at the situation from the other side? Divorce - it is as a stage for a new better life with someone who will appreciate you more and respect and whom you will love for real.
The new relationship will you only when you are to them as to be ready. Men will feel it, so nobody will come to an tired of the insults a woman in advance dooms itself to suffering. Worth trying to change. For example: changed his style, sign up for dancing or even find a new job.
Tune in for the best. If you believe in something that would succeed, nothing can knock you on track. Think about the good things about what experience have you had and what mistakes you can in the future. Do not ever get angry at her ex-husband and even more to avenge him for a divorce - anger boiling inside of you cause harm, especially you and your well-being.
Afraid of a new life - is to deprive ourselves of new prospects and happy moments. Just imagine how many before you open new roads and opportunities! Remember, what you dreamed of before her marriage, and what had to be abandoned due to lack of time.
But in telling the world, you can show yourself for what you really are. You'll see - a woman's real men will not miss!
First, you need to get rid of everything that reminds of the old life. This can be anything: clothes, books, photos, disks. If possible, you should change the place of residence, and maybe even the city. Thus, you not only get rid of the aura of a failed marriage, but otvlecheshsya from the divorce. In the opposite case, to overcome the memories will be much harder.
Do not go in so loved you once restaurants and cafes, where he once made you an offer, or the day after day twirl donated the souvenirs. Remove his work and mobile phone numbers, not rewriting them in advance at the leaf.
Let's face it: the past is not returned, and as before will be gone. Therefore you should not spend their years, youth and beauty of aimless recollections, and the constant shaking of nerves. Try to forget all the bad, leaving in only the most happy moments.
In no case of measles at his divorce: with you all right - you are beautiful, intelligent and charming, just sometimes the roads diverge. Maybe you should look at the situation from the other side? Divorce - it is as a stage for a new better life with someone who will appreciate you more and respect and whom you will love for real.
The new relationship will you only when you are to them as to be ready. Men will feel it, so nobody will come to an tired of the insults a woman in advance dooms itself to suffering. Worth trying to change. For example: changed his style, sign up for dancing or even find a new job.
Tune in for the best. If you believe in something that would succeed, nothing can knock you on track. Think about the good things about what experience have you had and what mistakes you can in the future. Do not ever get angry at her ex-husband and even more to avenge him for a divorce - anger boiling inside of you cause harm, especially you and your well-being.
Afraid of a new life - is to deprive ourselves of new prospects and happy moments. Just imagine how many before you open new roads and opportunities! Remember, what you dreamed of before her marriage, and what had to be abandoned due to lack of time.
But in telling the world, you can show yourself for what you really are. You'll see - a woman's real men will not miss!
Sex after childbirth
My friend recently divorced. After birth, the husband went on a spree. Not just changed once, and started a mistress, and constantly visit her. Friend in tears: I like a little child, why did not he wait? For me it was impossible to engage in sex after childbirth!
Girls, my dears. Yes, sex can not do. But the affection that no one canceled! It is he, your husband, the father of your child. He gave you this happiness. Thanks to him, now you have a little person. Yes, the child needs to pay much attention. But giving only half an hour to his beloved, let us say before bed, you give him to understand that appreciate your relationship.
This may be just kissing, caressing hands, oral sex, in the end. The main thing is to give her husband what he expects from you. Even if you have no sexual desire (within a few months after birth - this is normal), a sense of gratitude and love, for sure, because not gone anywhere. You're so long waiting for this moment! As many as nine months!
And remember how you made love to conceive a child. Which poses tried, what days chosen for closeness. It's the best moments in your life. Talk to your husband about this. Talking about sex, sex itself, of course, not replace, but your man will know that you also think of him as before.
Men - they themselves as children, that's a little jealous. Do not allow this. Do everything possible to a child and her husband have hardly been neglected your attention. Try to minimize time costs, ask your husband to help around the house, washing instruct a washing machine, cook simple meals, tune into a positive and you could do it!
When the time comes and you will be available to the normal sex, ask your husband to do so as soon as tender. For many women, sex after childbirth is worse than the first sexual experience. This is due to the possible pain, with uncertainty in its beauty (spoiled figure after the birth), with dryness of the vagina.
If you have a concern, in any case not be silent. Do not go to the victim: that's just to satisfy him and everything. After all, your husband - this is the closest person to you. If there is pain, you need to identify the cause, go to the gynecologist to check for the presence of infection, to know whether the healed tears, etc. If vaginal dryness appeared, it is worth to buy a special grease. There is nothing wrong, in fact, many lubricants contain substances that help women relax and get a more powerful orgasm, and this is for you very, very important.
All in your hands! Sex after childbirth would be even better than before. After you become a real woman. Woman with a capital letter!
Girls, my dears. Yes, sex can not do. But the affection that no one canceled! It is he, your husband, the father of your child. He gave you this happiness. Thanks to him, now you have a little person. Yes, the child needs to pay much attention. But giving only half an hour to his beloved, let us say before bed, you give him to understand that appreciate your relationship.
This may be just kissing, caressing hands, oral sex, in the end. The main thing is to give her husband what he expects from you. Even if you have no sexual desire (within a few months after birth - this is normal), a sense of gratitude and love, for sure, because not gone anywhere. You're so long waiting for this moment! As many as nine months!
And remember how you made love to conceive a child. Which poses tried, what days chosen for closeness. It's the best moments in your life. Talk to your husband about this. Talking about sex, sex itself, of course, not replace, but your man will know that you also think of him as before.
Men - they themselves as children, that's a little jealous. Do not allow this. Do everything possible to a child and her husband have hardly been neglected your attention. Try to minimize time costs, ask your husband to help around the house, washing instruct a washing machine, cook simple meals, tune into a positive and you could do it!
When the time comes and you will be available to the normal sex, ask your husband to do so as soon as tender. For many women, sex after childbirth is worse than the first sexual experience. This is due to the possible pain, with uncertainty in its beauty (spoiled figure after the birth), with dryness of the vagina.
If you have a concern, in any case not be silent. Do not go to the victim: that's just to satisfy him and everything. After all, your husband - this is the closest person to you. If there is pain, you need to identify the cause, go to the gynecologist to check for the presence of infection, to know whether the healed tears, etc. If vaginal dryness appeared, it is worth to buy a special grease. There is nothing wrong, in fact, many lubricants contain substances that help women relax and get a more powerful orgasm, and this is for you very, very important.
All in your hands! Sex after childbirth would be even better than before. After you become a real woman. Woman with a capital letter!
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