Sex after childbirth

My friend recently divorced. After birth, the husband went on a spree. Not just changed once, and started a mistress, and constantly visit her. Friend in tears: I like a little child, why did not he wait? For me it was impossible to engage in sex after childbirth!

Girls, my dears. Yes, sex can not do. But the affection that no one canceled! It is he, your husband, the father of your child. He gave you this happiness. Thanks to him, now you have a little person. Yes, the child needs to pay much attention. But giving only half an hour to his beloved, let us say before bed, you give him to understand that appreciate your relationship.

This may be just kissing, caressing hands, oral sex, in the end. The main thing is to give her husband what he expects from you. Even if you have no sexual desire (within a few months after birth - this is normal), a sense of gratitude and love, for sure, because not gone anywhere. You're so long waiting for this moment! As many as nine months!

And remember how you made love to conceive a child. Which poses tried, what days chosen for closeness. It's the best moments in your life. Talk to your husband about this. Talking about sex, sex itself, of course, not replace, but your man will know that you also think of him as before.

Men - they themselves as children, that's a little jealous. Do not allow this. Do everything possible to a child and her husband have hardly been neglected your attention. Try to minimize time costs, ask your husband to help around the house, washing instruct a washing machine, cook simple meals, tune into a positive and you could do it!

When the time comes and you will be available to the normal sex, ask your husband to do so as soon as tender. For many women, sex after childbirth is worse than the first sexual experience. This is due to the possible pain, with uncertainty in its beauty (spoiled figure after the birth), with dryness of the vagina.

If you have a concern, in any case not be silent. Do not go to the victim: that's just to satisfy him and everything. After all, your husband - this is the closest person to you. If there is pain, you need to identify the cause, go to the gynecologist to check for the presence of infection, to know whether the healed tears, etc. If vaginal dryness appeared, it is worth to buy a special grease. There is nothing wrong, in fact, many lubricants contain substances that help women relax and get a more powerful orgasm, and this is for you very, very important.

All in your hands! Sex after childbirth would be even better than before. After you become a real woman. Woman with a capital letter!